perseverance

i was watching the army show on channel 8 and i have some thoughts.
in the show, felicia chin told bryan that she will persevere in her pursuit of bryan's love and she told tay ping hui to give up her and dun persevere on in wooing her. bryan told felicia that her efforts will go to waste and not to persevere on.

life is weird. when u like a ger, u will tell the ger that u will persevere and hopefully, one day she will be touched by ur perseverance and efforts put in. at the same time, if there's a a girl that like you but you dun like her, you will tell her that it's impossible between the 2 of you, tell her not to persevere on and that her efforts will not pay off. my point is, if u can persevere in ur pursuit of some other gers, who are you to tell someone else not to persevere in the pursuit of the things she wants, even if the 'thing' could be u.